I am working on my 4th iteration of trying to get the Apple Remote application working. I run the setup and iTunes is able to see my iphone. I enter the code generated by the phone to link the devices and the library is added to the list on my phone. I then try to connect and after about 4 minutes of spinning, the phone will tell me that an error has occured. I have tried this in many difference configurations.
iMac (wired), iphone
iMac (wired , iPod Touch
Mac Book (wireless), iphone
Mac Book (wireless), ipod touch
Does this thing have a secret set up I cant find?