If your friend is using a Mac, remember that OS X can read both FAT32 and NTFS partitions, so if it sees that partition or drive, you can use it to copy your files.
If it's a PC laptop, then you may have to pull the drive (it's often nearly trivial to do) and put it in an enclosure or use an adapter cable (which does the same thing as the electronics in an external enclosure) to copy the data.