Oh yea FYI if the guy already won the auction, if you did not put on the auction that you would accept escrow then thats it. If the buyer will only do escrow then don't do it, you can change your mind to do escrow but it is your choice. Simply relist the item and file non-paying bidder requests and put in "failure to comply with terms" as the reason. You will be refunded the fees for the auction once all that goes through.