This happened to me too and after several days of frustration I thought that the computer was history!
Here is the solution (bear with me as I am going from memory, but I think this is the proper sequence)
Start up the mac.
Once it has fully completed startup, hit "enter" a couple of times in case the finder is asking for something.
Next touch and hold the power button until the computer goes to sleep.
Wait until you hear the drive power down and the Mac is asleep. Wait about 2 minutes.
After the two minute wait, hit any key--the Mac should wake up and your screen should light up as per normal.
Once you are up and running, install the firmware update and reinstall OSX.
Good luck!
Jeff