Dolby digital audio has a higher dynamic range (that is, the difference between the loudest and the quietest sound it can produce) than CDs do, especially since the loudness wars began artificially reducing the dynamic range of CDs even further. This means that if you have the volume high enough to hear the voices in a quiet part, the loud noises becomes VERY loud - and, if you don't have speakers matched with your amp, you might blow out your speakers. To compensate, you can enable their "Late Night" feature, which does NOT reduce the peaks in the slightest - what it does is amplify the most quiet parts, so you don't need to keep the volume quite so high. It's meant for movies, though, so I'm not surprised that enabling it for a music DVD produces bad results
My receiver has two modes for the Late Night feature, Low and High. High sounds terrible, but Low works quite well.