well it might be bad form but I'm answering my own post...
nothing was working so I copied my info to an external FW drive which I then booted from with the old OS 9 folder (OS X wouldn't work that way either).
I ran disk first aid several times and it wasn't working.. so I initalized my drive...
now when I start up I have a flashing question mark...
OS 9 disk boots fine (cd and external FW)
OS X cause a scary screen with a square and text in a bunch of differnt languages telling me to restart.
Well I did but every time (for OS X) got the same screen
Zapped the p ram (yes took all power off)
now I'm about to do a low level...
crossing the fingers...
if I can't install OS X after that then I'm going to the apple store I guess
