Bluetooth and just about everything else is shut off in sleep, so it doesn't matter if you turn these things off or not before going to sleep. The only significant (and it's not really that significant) power drain in sleep is maintaining the DDR memory in self refresh mode so that memory contents are preserved. Therefore, the more memory you have, the more power used in sleep. However, the benefits of extra memory far outweigh the loss of sleep longeviity. And yes, sleep time on battery is much less than it was in the G3 Powerbook days, but I guess more power is required to maintain DDR versus the SDRAM used in those machines.
Steve