You can. However, it might be best to first check why the fan is going on: utilities like CoreDuoTemp will give you a readout of the machine's internal temperature sensors. smcFanControl does let you control the threshold at which the fan kicks in, but likely not in the direction you want.
As for the DVD, this is quite subjective, and there is a fair amount of variance. So long as the discs aren't being damaged and appear to be spinning evenly and not banging into things, you're probably doing okay. If they don't eject, wobble a lot, or have read errors, that would be a cause for concern.