There's a reason why they gave you that outdated garbage which requires so much effort to get working--but that's as far as my psychic abilities go.
Machine it's install in?
Mac OS version?
Make & model of SCSI card & drive?
What the System Profiler is recognizing the card as (if it does at all)?
The 80-pin connector contains all the data, power, and config lines. That's why the adapter has jumpers (because it's eliminating those lines from the 80-pin connector as well as separating out the power lines).
More importantly, not all SCSI protocols are the same. You could have a UltraWide, Ultra2Wide, or Ultra160 card. U160 is backwards compatible with U2W but not UW. Add to that complicated mix the issues of termination, SCSI ID, cable lengths, OS incompatibilities & different firmware versions, and you'll be ready to give that junk away too.