I've had this problem through several iterations and updates and am mostly using AIM as a result. I am using 10.2.8. iChat continually reports my buddies as not online for both those using ichat and using AIM. AIM however sees them just fine. For that matter, my ibook that I use away from my desk with Panther and ichat works fine too via my airport network and also worked using 10.2.8.
I don't have any idea where to start with this. It just seems odd. Any ideas? I've toyed with the idea that various identities are conflicting with each other but have no idea how to test this. I'm still using my old AOL login names for accounts discontinued years ago on AIM. ichat is using my .mac ID. In privacy preferences I have chosen "allow anyone" hoping that would up the chances of the process working.
Thanks for any suggestions.
PS I've been holding off on Panther for this machine because No One Lives Forever 2 doesn't work with Panther)
PPS irritatingly, ichat help says "see the ichat FAQs" for troubleshooting but I can't find them.