I was, sorry about that....
I tried to check the web but couldn't find anything either.
Describe it more in detail:
Can you IM with her at all? Is it just the Video that's broken?
The other part to isolate is whether it's from your side (Mac), or her side(PC). Check to see if anyone else can Video IM her.
If it's your side, have installed any of the new OSX Security Updates in the last week?
From her side, I would contact AOL to see if there are any issues with chatting through SP2.
Again, sorry for the joke, thought you'd get it.....
~Echo