thank you soo much for the assist.
i went to that directory on my newly installed leopard setup, and it doesnt exist. i did find it in time machine, but when i copied it over to the correct directory, nothing happened. i found that if i dig through the files, i can open the files individually and add each item/date individually, but it wasn't in the correct category etc... so it was do-able, but messy.
i would have to go back and re create the fields, and change the fields one by one (to home/work/school/extra hours/birthdays/misc etc
like a jackass, i was rummaging in my time machine backup today, and i found a icbu file. iCal backup ....
it looks like i did back it up before running off to get the hard drive swapped, but in a rush, i failed to put it into the "BACKUP" folder that was sitting on the desktop. what a moron.
double clicking the field restored everything back to normal (after popping up a message saying it would restore/reset and asking if it was ok.
woooot ... love the laptop again! so much space, and a bit snappier. just waiting on snow leopard now.
Thanks again!