I use iCal very regularly. I don't want it to send me an email so I go into edit and change the alert from email to "Message with Sound". I then click on "All" as this is for a recurring event. I then see the Message with Sound and the Basso sound, and it's set to 10 minutes before. I click Done and it closes that window. I then go back in to that very same event and literally see it go from Message with Sound back to Email.
I don't know what's going on. Please help me.