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acadian · Nov 22, 2004, 02:30 PM

I was unfaithful to my girlfriend, she found out, she left. I have lost the most important person in the world to me and I deserve it. To all you guys out there who may ever find yourself in a compromising position where you must make that fateful choice, for god's sake make the right one. It is absolutley not worth what you will lose. Nothing good can come of making the other choice.

That's it...flame away....

PacHead · Nov 22, 2004, 02:45 PM

lol

Blue Flame · Nov 22, 2004, 02:54 PM

agreed.

Sorry you have to go through this, but I'm afraid you won't find sympathy here. Life's a lesson I suppose.

Severed Hand of Skywalker · Nov 22, 2004, 02:56 PM

How did she catch you?

faeriemusic · Nov 22, 2004, 02:57 PM

Originally posted by acadian:
I was unfaithful to my girlfriend, she found out, she left. I have lost the most important person in the world to me and I deserve it. To all you guys out there who may ever find yourself in a compromising position where you must make that fateful choice, for god's sake make the right one. It is absolutley not worth what you will lose. Nothing good can come of making the other choice.

That's it...flame away....

Then why is the choice made? Where is that thought of the most important person before the deed is done? It hurts them more and they have to deal with the pain and betrayal and the absolute shock. There are feelings of stupidity and foolishness and the curse of not being able to instantly turn their feelings off. Sorry is easy. Living with the fallout is hard.

ManOfSteal · Nov 22, 2004, 02:57 PM

She'll be back.

Nivag · Nov 22, 2004, 02:58 PM

Originally posted by Severed Hand of Skywalker:
How did she catch you?

yeah, i'd like know as well, always best to learn from other peoples mistakes

turtle777 · Nov 22, 2004, 02:59 PM

Originally posted by manofsteal:
She'll be back.

What makes you think ?

-t

ManOfSteal · Nov 22, 2004, 03:00 PM

Originally posted by turtle777:
What makes you think ?

-t

She'll read this thread and see how he truly feels.

PacHead · Nov 22, 2004, 03:01 PM

Originally posted by turtle777:
What makes you think ?

-t

Never underestimate the power of the penis, and it's effect on desperate women, or ex-girlfriends for that matter.

Severed Hand of Skywalker · Nov 22, 2004, 03:02 PM

Originally posted by manofsteal:
She'll be back.

I thought once you go black...

BlueSky · Nov 22, 2004, 03:04 PM

Originally posted by PacHead:
Never underestimate the power of the penis, and it's effect on desperate women, or ex-girlfriends for that matter.

Never underestimate the power of desperate women or ex-girlfriends and their effect on the penis.

E's Lil Theorem · Nov 22, 2004, 03:04 PM

Originally posted by PacHead:
Never underestimate the power of the penis, and it's effect on desperate women, or ex-girlfriends for that matter.

From Magnolia (Tom Cruise's character):

Frank T.J. Mackey: Respect the c*ck... and tame the c*nt. Tame it.

EDIT: forgot to add that if you got caught cheating, it was only a matter of time before the relationship ended anyway (in some other way or you maybe would have cheated on her some more until she found out). Apologize to girl as she probably had nothing to do with it and move on. If you just want to "play" around (the field, if you will), do so, but don't lead girls on. Karma, dude, it'll eventually catch up with you.

paully dub · Nov 22, 2004, 03:05 PM

I know it's hard to take, but really, suicide is the only way at this point.

Seriously, give us some details. You were caught how. The rest of us bums need to learn from this (how not to cheat on your gf without being caught for starters).

BlueSky · Nov 22, 2004, 03:08 PM

"Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra and then suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come."

d4nth3m4n · Nov 22, 2004, 03:09 PM

niiice.

oh, and move on brother, nothing you can do now. women are 12 for 10�. find a new one.

EDIT: to echo what E's said, as soon as she found out this was doomed, there would no way you could ever go out and not have her worrying about who you are with and what you are doing. it's a long painful ending that way, trust me, i've been there a couple times now.

all in all, though you probably don't see it, this is for the best. now it's on YOU to move on with YOUR life.

Twhylight · Nov 22, 2004, 03:10 PM

Wow, is pouring your heart out on a thread the nerdy equivalent of dedicating a cheesy tune on the radio? Next time you might want to send her flowers at work. Or not have sex with someone else.

Feathers · Nov 22, 2004, 03:10 PM

Originally posted by Bluesky:
Never underestimate the power of desperate women or ex-girlfriends and their effect on the penis.

Never underestimate the power of desperate women or girlfriends and their effect on the ex-penis.

You got away light if all she did was walk out. Have you checked your wardrobe? Shirts and ties still in one piece? Better check inside you boxers, you could be a ball down and not know it yet!

RAILhead · Nov 22, 2004, 03:12 PM

Serves you right, ya putz. No sympathy from me.

turtle777 · Nov 22, 2004, 03:23 PM

Originally posted by d4nth3m4n:
oh, and move on brother, nothing you can do now. women are 12 for 10�. find a new one.

So how much is Mrs. d4n worth ? 1.2� ?

I'll take a six pack then...

-t

d4nth3m4n · Nov 22, 2004, 03:32 PM

Originally posted by turtle777:
So how much is Mrs. d4n worth ? 1.2� ?

I'll take a six pack then...

-t

dude, your math is way off, more like .833�.

Dingbat111 · Nov 22, 2004, 03:36 PM

How VERY unfortunate for you that you screwed someone else and your girlfriend left you! Unthinkable! Oh my goodness my heart is bleeding for you! Imagine a woman having enough self respect to kick your lying, cheating, pathetic sorry ass to the curb?? Unthinkable!
All I can say is I hope she doesnt have some big posse of friends who find you and kick your ass all over town.
You must be so very sad and alone... funny, some how I think thats how you will end up. She is WAY WAY WAY better off without the likes of you. You are disgusting.

olePigeon · Nov 22, 2004, 03:38 PM

Originally posted by Dingbat111:
How VERY unfortunate for you that you screwed someone else and your girlfriend left you! Unthinkable! Oh my goodness my heart is bleeding for you! Imagine a woman having enough self respect to kick your lying, cheating, pathetic sorry ass to the curb?? Unthinkable!
All I can say is I hope she doesnt have some big posse of friends who find you and kick your ass all over town.
You must be so very sad and alone... funny, some how I think thats how you will end up. She is WAY WAY WAY better off without the likes of you. You are disgusting.

storer · Nov 22, 2004, 03:39 PM

Originally posted by Blue Flame:
Sorry you have to go through this, but I'm afraid you won't find sympathy here. Life's a lesson I suppose.

Nor here. My mother is a single parent now, as a result of my father being "unfaithful" to her. And it was HIM who left, not her. Now, she has to get tested to see if she caught and STIs from him. That's just great, isn't it. Acadian, what are you rooted in the head?

d4nth3m4n · Nov 22, 2004, 03:41 PM

this thread has two first posts in it. either this forum just got new members or there are some spineless tits who don't want their names tarnished.

i blame WD Love.

turtle777 · Nov 22, 2004, 03:44 PM

Originally posted by d4nth3m4n:
dude, your math is way off, more like .833�.

No, I figured she's worth more than average !
Or what do you think ? Isn't a 0.4� add-up justifiable ?

-t

BlueSky · Nov 22, 2004, 03:50 PM

Originally posted by Dingbat111:
How VERY unfortunate for you that you screwed someone else and your girlfriend left you! Unthinkable! Oh my goodness my heart is bleeding for you! Imagine a woman having enough self respect to kick your lying, cheating, pathetic sorry ass to the curb?? Unthinkable!
All I can say is I hope she doesnt have some big posse of friends who find you and kick your ass all over town.
You must be so very sad and alone... funny, some how I think thats how you will end up. She is WAY WAY WAY better off without the likes of you. You are disgusting.

It's fun to judge, ain't it?

I don't know if your post was sincere or not, but it has nothing to do with acadian's situation. For that matter, neither do most of these posts, including my own.

Acadian, you don't need judgement nor guilt heaped upon you in order to get through whatever you're going through. You did what you did, take responsibility and walk on. You made a mistake.

d4nth3m4n · Nov 22, 2004, 03:51 PM

Originally posted by turtle777:
No, I figured she's worth more than average !
Or what do you think ? Isn't a 0.4� add-up justifiable ?

-t

this dead horse has been adequately beaten. moving on...

turtle777 · Nov 22, 2004, 03:53 PM

Originally posted by d4nth3m4n:
this dead horse has been adequately beaten. moving on...

Is that a yes or a no ?

*duck*

-t

Dingbat111 · Nov 22, 2004, 03:57 PM

Originally posted by Bluesky:
It's fun to judge, ain't it? I don't know if your post was sincere or not, but it has nothing to do with acadian's situation. For that matter, neither do most of these posts, including my own.

Acadian, you don't need judgement nor guilt heaped upon you in order to get through whatever you're going through. You did what you did, take responsibility and walk on. You made a mistake.

LOL Bluesky if you only knew....my post has EVERYTHING to do with Acadians situation. I would DEFINITELY be one of the posse kicking his ass all over town. I think he should wear that guilt until he chokes on it. Granted you are free to think what you like but I will remain disgusted.

BlueSky · Nov 22, 2004, 03:58 PM

Originally posted by Dingbat111:
LOL Bluesky if you only knew....my post has EVERYTHING to do with Acadians situation. I would DEFINITELY be one of the posse kicking his ass all over town. I think he should wear that guilt until he chokes on it. Granted you are free to think what you like but I will remain disgusted.

I'll bet you're acadian.

Zimphire · Nov 22, 2004, 03:59 PM

Originally posted by Dingbat111:
LOL Bluesky if you only knew....my post has EVERYTHING to do with Acadians situation. I would DEFINITELY be one of the posse kicking his ass all over town. I think he should wear that guilt until he chokes on it. Granted you are free to think what you like but I will remain disgusted.

You sound like a real tough guy.

Dingbat111 · Nov 22, 2004, 04:00 PM

Originally posted by Zimphire:
You sound like a real tough guy.

5 feet of pure bitterness

waxcrash · 04:11 PM

Don't beat yourself up acadian, just learn from your mistake and don't do it again. I cheated on my current girlfriend 6 years ago and we are still together. It has taken years of work to gain her trust back, but of course she still doesn't fully trust me. It was my first and only time I cheated and could never do it again. Cheating on a loved one sucks.

ManOfSteal · Nov 22, 2004, 04:12 PM

Originally posted by d4nth3m4n:

niiice.

Thanks.

xi_hyperon · Nov 22, 2004, 04:23 PM

Originally posted by Dingbat111:
5 feet of pure bitterness

ambush?

E's Lil Theorem · Nov 22, 2004, 04:32 PM

Originally posted by xi_hyperon:
ambush?

olePigeon · 05:12 PM

Originally posted by turtle777:
No, I figured she's worth more than average !
Or what do you think ? Isn't a 0.4� add-up justifiable ?

-t

Just trying to figure this out. Are you saying she's 4/10 of 1 cent, or did you mistype 4 cents, which is $0.04.

Edit: Fixed.

nredman · Nov 22, 2004, 04:48 PM

Originally posted by acadian:
I was unfaithful to my girlfriend, she found out, she left. I have lost the most important person in the world to me and I deserve it. To all you guys out there who may ever find yourself in a compromising position where you must make that fateful choice, for god's sake make the right one. It is absolutley not worth what you will lose. Nothing good can come of making the other choice.

That's it...flame away....

sorry man, hope things get better for you, no offense but in my opinion she wasn't the most important person in the world to you if you cheated on her, at that moment you were the most important person.

shmerek · Nov 22, 2004, 04:49 PM

Originally posted by olePigeon:
Just trying to figure this out. Are you saying she's 4/10 of 1 cent, or did you mistype 4 cents, which is $0.4.

I am in danger of being labeled a moron here but isn't $0.4 40 cents and $0.04 4 cents?

d4nth3m4n · Nov 22, 2004, 05:00 PM

Cliff's notes on this ordeal-

"dime a dozen" = 12 for 10�.

the turtle has his numerator and denominator flipped an comes back with,

"so your gf is only worth 1.2� (cents)?"

then i say his math off and 10/12 is actually .8333 or .83�

then he comes back, covering his ass i might add, and insinuates that Mrs. D4n. is worth the .4� (.37�, but who's counting?) markup.

then i say its a dead horse.

then he asks me if that's a yes or a no.

ugh.

turtle777 · Nov 22, 2004, 05:08 PM

Originally posted by d4nth3m4n:
Cliff's notes on this ordeal-

"dime a dozen" = 12 for 10�.

the turtle has his numerator and denominator flipped an comes back with,

"so your gf is only worth 1.2� (cents)?"

then i say his math off and 10/12 is actually .8333 or .83�

then he comes back, covering his ass i might add, and insinuates that Mrs. D4n. is worth the .4� (.37�, but who's counting?) markup.

then i say its a dead horse.

then he asks me if that's a yes or a no.

ugh.

Thanks for bringing us up to speed.

Maybe we can ride the horse to resurrection ? :hm:

-t

olePigeon · Nov 22, 2004, 05:11 PM

Originally posted by shmerek:
I am in danger of being labeled a moron here but isn't $0.4 40 cents and $0.04 4 cents?

Nope, that's right. I messed up.

But what I was getting at was the misuse of � and $ signs.

xi_hyperon · Nov 22, 2004, 05:21 PM

Looking at the thread topic, one would never be able to predict that it would turn into a currency debate.

turtle777 · Nov 22, 2004, 05:22 PM

Originally posted by xi_hyperon:
Looking at the thread topic, one would never guess that it would turn into a currency debate.

Hehe, you're right !

-t

rozwado1 · Nov 22, 2004, 05:58 PM

the real question is whether or not d4n will grant access of the Mrs. D4n screenname to future girlfriends. Then we'd have constantly updated pics of the Asian girls that d4n goes through. Something to think about...

acadian: you �ucked up once, so go do it again, and again, and again. At least 4 times, then try to fall in love again. If you're really in love, you wouldn't think about cheating in the first place - you wouldn't put yourself in that situation.