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RonnieoftheRose · Mar 1, 2005, 09:32 PM

Suppose you have been in love with someone for a long time but don't see them for a while and then when you see them again by remarkable coincidence you **** up by not saying anything out of fright and someone else picks them up, how would you react?

Mafia · Mar 1, 2005, 09:33 PM

drinking and watching girl on girl porno on a tuesday night.

RonnieoftheRose · Mar 1, 2005, 09:34 PM

Originally posted by Mafia:
drinking and watching girl on girl porno on a tuesday night.

That's stupid. Give me a serious answer.

ManOfSteal · Mar 1, 2005, 09:34 PM

I'd start by punching the nearest pillow in sight, then top it off with a rather annoying yell.

Mafia · Mar 1, 2005, 09:35 PM

Originally posted by RonnieoftheRose:
That's stupid. Give me a serious answer.

i was serious.

Ghoser777 · Mar 1, 2005, 09:35 PM

Same way Peter Park did - be pissed at yourself, stay friends with the girl, wait for the guy to slip up, then make your move.

RonnieoftheRose · Mar 1, 2005, 09:38 PM

I ahve punched the pillow, I have punished myself. I am not Spiderman though. The wonderful thing about her is that she kept an eye on me for some time after that guy came along and it filled me with so much joy and made me feel so so alive. But I haven't seen her for a while and feel ****ing lonely. Does it makes sense to say she means more to me than even my family?

Ghoser777 · Mar 1, 2005, 09:41 PM

Yes. You have a huge crush on her. Make your move, dammit! The worst thing she could say to you is no.

RonnieoftheRose · Mar 1, 2005, 09:48 PM

Originally posted by Ghoser777:
Yes. You have a huge crush on her. Make your move, dammit! The worst thing she could say to you is no.

I already tried and got neither no or yes. I got silence and sign language. It's not fair. She has tried, it seems, but I don't understand her reasons for not trying harder. I sometimes think I do but because I haven't seen her for a while I just...**** I don't know how to explain it. Have you been in this situation before?

Ghoser777 · Mar 1, 2005, 10:01 PM

No, I have women issues in general.

ManOfSteal · Mar 1, 2005, 10:03 PM

Originally posted by Ghoser777:
No, I have women issues in general.

Yeah, Keira is very controlling, eh? Dominating?

RonnieoftheRose · Mar 1, 2005, 10:05 PM

Tell me about your women issues. I'm good at giving advice based on my own errors but not good at giving it to myself.

ManOfSteal · Mar 1, 2005, 10:06 PM

Originally posted by RonnieoftheRose:
Tell me about your women issues. I'm good at giving advice based on my own errors but not good at giving it to myself.

'NN Quote of the Day!

RonnieoftheRose · Mar 1, 2005, 10:06 PM

Excuse me but I have to ask. In this drunken state how do you expect me to understand what 'Never let yesterday be tomorrow's today.' means? Explain it right now!

RonnieoftheRose · Mar 1, 2005, 10:07 PM

Originally posted by ManOfSteal:
'NN Quote of the Day!

You mean I actually won something? I'm very gushed.

Mafia · Mar 1, 2005, 10:18 PM

Originally posted by RonnieoftheRose:
Excuse me but I have to ask. In this drunken state how do you expect me to understand what 'Never let yesterday be tomorrow's today.' means? Explain it right now!

i would say it means never live two days the same.

sugar_coated · Mar 1, 2005, 10:23 PM

Giving up everything some have said is a way towards greater attainments.

JHromadka · Mar 1, 2005, 10:31 PM

Originally posted by RonnieoftheRose:
Suppose you have been in love with someone for a long time but don't see them for a while and then when you see them again by remarkable coincidence you **** up by not saying anything out of fright and someone else picks them up, how would you react?

I'd have to kill myself, then go out and get drunk.

RonnieoftheRose · Mar 1, 2005, 10:35 PM

I'm afraid my situation is quite different, Hromakda. This girl is everything I dreamt of for years. We even have the same letters in each others names and our paths keep crossing. I could go across the world and I would be slapped with things that remind me of her. I mean really really ****ing specific things. I can't escape. All I can do is drive myself crazy like I am now.

JHromadka · Mar 1, 2005, 11:04 PM

Originally posted by RonnieoftheRose:
I'm afraid my situation is quite different, Hromakda. This girl is everything I dreamt of for years. We even have the same letters in each others names and our paths keep crossing. I could go across the world and I would be slapped with things that remind me of her. I mean really really ****ing specific things. I can't escape. All I can do is drive myself crazy like I am now.

I was kidding of course. You can either look over your shoulder or look forward. There are girls that I look back on fondly and wonder what might have been, but you have to move on. Sure that sounds easier said than done, but it's the truth. I have friends that pined for women for seven years before finally finding happiness with another. Living with regret means never looking forward to tomorrow.

I turn 30 next week

, but even after having been married 5 years and now divorced and single, I have no regrets.

starman · Mar 1, 2005, 11:08 PM

So what you're saying is that you have no balls.

historylme · Mar 2, 2005, 12:03 AM

Originally posted by RonnieoftheRose:
I'm afraid my situation is quite different, Hromakda. This girl is everything I dreamt of for years. We even have the same letters in each others names and our paths keep crossing. I could go across the world and I would be slapped with things that remind me of her. I mean really really ****ing specific things. I can't escape. All I can do is drive myself crazy like I am now.

So this is the reason for all the threads and drinking. Well, good luck my brotha. Enjoy the pain, for in it there is much to be learned, but don't let become you. Like JHromadka said, move forward with no regrets.

RonnieoftheRose · Mar 2, 2005, 12:08 AM

I can't move forward without regrets. I am really cursed. You have no idea how cursed I am. It's a very not normal thing. All I can do is let it happen if it will, live my life without love, or die. I don't think anyone will give a **** no matter what happens.

historylme · Mar 2, 2005, 12:18 AM

Just remember that Karma only affects those that subscribe to the belief.

RonnieoftheRose · Mar 2, 2005, 12:20 AM

Originally posted by history1me:
Just remember that Karma only affects those that subscribe to the belief.

I don't subscribe to belief. Belief subscribes to me.

Coming up, someone will say that in Mao's China internet connects to you!

anthonyvthc · Mar 2, 2005, 12:45 AM

Originally posted by sugar_coated:
Giving up everything some have said is a way towards greater attainments.

You got the idea right, but what Brad really said was "It's only after we've lost everything that we are free to do anything."

RonnieoftheRose · Mar 2, 2005, 12:48 AM

The Buddha was fat because he ate all the food his monks begged for.

JustAnOl'Broad · Mar 2, 2005, 12:56 AM

Originally posted by RonnieoftheRose:
I don't subscribe to belief. Belief subscribes to me.

Coming up, someone will say that in Mao's China internet connects to you!

Ronnie,
Hope it all works out for the best.
Catch up with her and tell her how you really feel.
(not tonite)
The alcohol isn't really your best friend when you feel this blue;
usually just makes things worse.
Catch some zzzzzz's and look on it fresh in the morning.
Try and think of all the things that are good in your life.

And since you asked for it, "In Mao's China internet connects to you!
Just tryin to make you laugh man.
P~

wdlove · Mar 2, 2005, 04:02 PM

The direct approach is usually the best. Best to find out, than to wait.

macintologist · Mar 2, 2005, 04:11 PM

If the chick has doubts or is ambiguous and won't give you a straight answer, then they aren't worth your time.

Look for someone who is as passionate about you as you are for them.

effgee · Mar 2, 2005, 04:22 PM

Originally posted by RonnieoftheRose:
Excuse me but I have to ask. In this drunken state how do you expect me to understand what 'Never let yesterday be tomorrow's today.' means? Explain it right now

Originally posted by Mafia:
i would say it means never live two days the same.

Or ... "Never make the same mistake twice"

Mafia · Mar 2, 2005, 04:23 PM

Originally posted by effgee:
Or ... "Never make the same mistake twice"

ya either one works there.

rozwado1 · Mar 2, 2005, 04:31 PM

Originally posted by macintologist:
If the chick has doubts or is ambiguous and won't give you a straight answer, then they aren't worth your time.

Seconded.

Tell her how you feel when you're sober and see what she says. If she's not mature enough to give you an answer, then **** her. Keep looking and maybe she'll come around. At least she'll know your stance on the situation.

jonasmac · Mar 2, 2005, 04:42 PM

Shyeah, make sure you're sober when you talk to her next. I know you seem bummed now, but you know, "this too shall pass."

There will be other girls. Other "special songs" other "special places" other things about some other girl that will make you feel alive.

Tell her how you feel, and if she's doesn't bite, Fuggeddabout'er.

macintologist · Mar 2, 2005, 05:24 PM

Time has two properties. Consider these two and what they mean.

-Time is a bullet

-Time is my hero

Idea taken from song lyrics of "Where are they now" by Mr. Big

macaddict0001 · Mar 3, 2005, 01:47 PM

I say get sober
ask her straight(no flirting and crap)
if shes not interested she will not date you and if she is go for it...