Infidelity. Adultery. Affairs with Married People.
Have you ever? Would you? Have you ever thought about it?
What were the repercussions? What was the good, the bad and the ugly?
Did anyone ever cheat on you? Did you suspect anything? How did you know?
How did you keep things secret? What got you busted? What made you decide to take the step?
Some of you may not want to admit things in open forum but you may want to get it off your conscience so I'll give you an anonymous poll you can at least answer and then talk around it in the thread.
Here's my dirt:
When I was in the military I met up with a woman whose husband was stationed overseas. I stopped when I heard he was coming home on leave. It made me wake up to what I was doing.
Crazy.
When I was married, before we separated, I never strayed. Afterwards it took me two years before I could be with another woman.
A few years after that I answered a personals ad and a couple wanted a guy to spice up their fun. I entertained the wife while he watched. One time deal. Creeped me out.
I'm currently in touch with a woman who wants to have relations outside of her marriage. I'm torn between continuing our friendship because I do enjoy her but I know she wants things to go somewhere I don't. If I let her definitely NO WAY I think she'll just go off and find someone who WILL lead her astray.
Bottom line I'm prepared to let her go but it will be difficult.
EDIT; NOTE TO ALL...YOU MUST POST YOUR POLL WITHIN FOUR MINUTES OF POSTING THE THREAD. I took too long and the poll was no longer an option.
