As with others, I prefer to check for updates manually, but this does look like the standard Apple software-update dialog box.
However, I suggest leaving the auto-checker on unless you're actually in the habit of checking for updates manually. SMacTech is correct that there are currently no known viruses for OSX, but Apple still delivers patches for other kinds of security issues; these tend to come once every other month or so. Keeping up to date is your best defense, and although Apple has a nasty habit of requiring unnecessary restarts after some of its patches, at least they make the whole process easy.