I fixed this problem. Will post a solution soon in case anyone else goes through this hell.
Server Monitor will not stop sending emails no matter what. I removed a name from the list of people to email and instead of removing it the name was replace with "" which postfix is saying is an invalid email address (DUH!!) and then sending a Undelivered Mail Returned to Sender to the root account (which is being spread to all root aliases). Please help I have over 2000 emails sent already!!!!