update:
dist utility says the drive is verified
and DW says its has one foot in the grave
to whom shall you put your trust?
anyway what they both agreed on and were unable to repair was the directory
at least disk warrior was able to make a preview so I can get all my important files off.
After backing everything up
I then pull out the install cd and did what i have been trying to avoid for the last four days
I wiped the drive.and reinstalled tiger
wow i almost forgot what itunes 4 looked like
in any case i no longer trust(as much as one can trust a hdd) my hdd anymore and will replace it anyway
hope this post is useful to someone