The AirPort Extreme card is NOT the same form factor as a PCMCIA card; it's a mini-PCI card. It has NO antenna; the antenna is in the Powerbook's case. The antenna you've got is really good, and for practical purposes, it's more than adequate for what the card is designed for.
Most people who do casual "discovery-type" wardriving get by fine without any special, external equipment. A friend, using his Pocket PC and a compact flash wireless card, pointed out to me three different neighbors running wireless networks; networks I hadn't ever noticed. You'd be surprised at how good a normal laptop with its normal wireless card (AirPort or otherwise) does outdoors.
However, if you're serious about wardriving, why not get a laptop that runs Linux (for which all the serious wardriving and intrusion software is native) and then buy an appropriate PCMCIA card, with the appropriate external antenna connector, to connect your Pringles-can antenna to. Not to sound cold, but to me this sort of application sounds devious at best.