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Finally returning to the US!
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Mac Elite
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Back in the Good Ole US of A
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Hey guys. Although I don't participate much I still frequent the site almost daily just to see what's on everyone's minds. For those of you that have been around a while you may recall I was forced to make a rather significant decision 10 years ago. My same-sex partner's F-1 student visa was expiring and if we wanted to stay together I would have to quit my job, leave my friends and family behind, and join him in his home country (Trinidad & Tobago). We've had some major highs and lows (my partner was shot in February of 2014 and lost 2 fingers off his right hand) but we are now finally able (thank you Supreme Court) and ready to return home to the US. We are in the final stages of getting his F-1 fiancé visa (which is an ordeal in and of itself) and anticipate returning in January to be married.
It's crazy where life takes you. For me it was 3 countries in 10 years...it sounds romantic but it's been exhausting. Now begins a new journey back in the US where we hope to soon start a family. Kinda scary at 52 years old but what the hell... it's what I've always wanted and I'm now able to achieve it.
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Managing Editor
Join Date: Jul 2012
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Sounds like the return will be good for you both. Welcome back (in advance), such as is the state of the country right now.
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Clinically Insane
Join Date: Nov 1999
Location: 888500128, C3, 2nd soft.
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I've been wondering whether the recent civil liberties advances would affect your status.
Good to hear!
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Posting Junkie
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Louisiana
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Glad you'll be back in the US. Hope the Internet speeds don't disappoint you too badly.
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Clinically Insane
Join Date: Jun 2001
Location: Chicago, Bang! Bang!
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I've definitely followed along, and am utterly thrilled for both of you!
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Clinically Insane
Join Date: Jun 2001
Location: planning a comeback !
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Great news, welcome back home.
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Mac Elite
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Back in the Good Ole US of A
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Thanks guys! We certainly are looking forward to it.
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Addicted to MacNN
Join Date: May 2001
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Nice!
OAW
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Moderator
Join Date: Jun 2000
Location: inside 128, north of 90
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Great news!
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Professional Poster
Join Date: Jan 2003
Location: Teaneck, NJ
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Welcome home and kudos for doing things the right way and dealing with all the bureaucracy and paperwork to get your fiance here.
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AT&T iPhone 5S and 6; 13" MBP; MDD G4.
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Games Meister
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Eternity
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Congrats, man. You're patience was rewarded.
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Addicted to MacNN
Join Date: Sep 2000
Location: Isle of Manhattan
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Welcome home! Some things have changed for the better.
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"Faster, faster! 'Till the thrill of speed overcomes the fear of death." - HST
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