My wife and I use Jabber (XMPP) via Adium to message each other throughout the day. Our XMPP server/host is Koderoot.net. Up til now, things have gone fairly well. However, in the past couple of days we've run into a big problem that I can't figure out.
When we launch Adium, it connects to the Jabber host without issue. We can see each other's status (Available, Away, etc.) change throughout the day. We can even see the pencil icon appear when one of us is typing. But, no messages ever get through. I don't get her messages, and she doesn't get mine. No errors are shown.
We've not changed anything in our Adium setups. I don't think Koderoot has changed anything on their end (at least their required settings are the same as we have set in Adium)
Anyone have any ideas about what's going on? I've emailed Koderoot, but have not gotten a reply. I've also posted to the Adium forums, but there's been no reply there, either.
(fwiw, yes, we can use Apple Messages, too. But Adium's small, efficient footprint is a lot more usable than Messages' big honkin' window.)