[natnabour]

Ok. So my coworker and I have been having this conversation for the past few hours (work? who works?). It all started off with how different people vocalize physical pleasure and pain.

We went through people who are in tune with their bodies, the threshold of pain variance, the nervous system, how senstivie someone is, the whole bit. Now, since neither of us have been in EXTREME pain before (except for myself, passing kidney stones) - we based our conclusion purely on sex.

Does your personality determine how loud or quiet you are in bed? If you're outgoing - loud. If you're shy - quiet. In our case, we found our previous partners to hold true to this statement.

Looking back, do you see the same trend? Or is it mixed?

I know a number of guys (and girls, not from personal experience) who are quiet in bed. We know sex feels good (or at least it should - some don't like it that way). Is there a reason why they don't vocalize it? Is it cause they generally don't vocalize physical pleasure or pain? Is it cause they're not comfortable with their own voice/sound? What do you think?

I wouldn't generally post something so.........sexual? But since this is the biggest forum I visit, I thought I'd get the most responses/opinion on this.

[residentEvil]

if the copes don't show up because of a noise complaint; you aren't doing it right.

we are animals. do animals keep quiet?

[Kevin]

I used to date a girl that made goat like noises during climax. I had to bury my face in the pillow many times to stop from laughing after my roomate at the time started making the same sounds after everything was done and over with.

[TheWOAT]

LOL@Kevin. Goat noises?

I would agree with the OP.

[voodoo]

Originally Posted by residentEvil 

if the copes don't show up because of a noise complaint; you aren't doing it right.

we are animals. do animals keep quiet?

Well.. yes. Usually animals don't make any special noise when having intercourse. For the record.

I agree with the first part though.

V

[torsoboy]

Originally Posted by voodoo 

Well.. yes. Usually animals don't make any special noise when having intercourse. For the record.

Except for cats. Man I hate hearing those things wailing at night. Though I heard once that it is painful to the female, so that might be what all the racket is about. Anyway, I hate having cats that live close by.

[::maroma::]

Originally Posted by torsoboy 

Except for cats. Man I hate hearing those things wailing at night. Though I heard once that it is painful to the female, so that might be what all the racket is about. Anyway, I hate having cats that live close by.

I would file this under "painful" for sure:

(via Wiki)
The male cat's penis has spines which point backwards. Upon withdrawal of the penis, the spines rake the walls of the female's vagina, which may cause ovulation.

I don't know if personality determines how you will be in the sack, but in my experience its hit or miss. Some chicks are shy and quiet in person, and crazy in bed.

[residentEvil]

Originally Posted by voodoo 

Well.. yes. Usually animals don't make any special noise when having intercourse. For the record.

I agree with the first part though.

V

yes, they do. guess you have never been in the wild when animals are doing it? monkeys (okay, that was in a zoo)? deer? hell, even cats do. most animals take by force or use force during intercourse. there is lots of sounds.

[Mithras]

I know a girl who's the mildest, most polite & quiet person in conversation. In bed, however, she's a noisy one. In a sense I think both behaviors derive from the same trait, of wanting to meet societal expectations of some kind.

[Kevin]

Originally Posted by TheWOAT 

LOL@Kevin. Goat noises?

I would agree with the OP.

Yeah.. or sheep noises.. something he was claiming. And she DID make funny baahahaaaaaa noises. I wont even go into the faces she'd make.
She was also multi-orgasmic. I was jealous. One time after about the 5th one I guess it felt "too" good or something and she started hitting the bedpost with her fist. She was your average gal too.. not freaky or anything. I am not saying this trying to brag about my sexual abilities. This was all her obviously.

[Salty]

One of the guys at my Church once said, "I've never met a gay boy raised in a conservative environment that wasn't at least a lil kinky" The funny thing was, there were five of us in the room, not a single one made any sort of objection. I pointed out and we all doubled over laughing.

[Oisín]

Originally Posted by Salty 

One of the guys at my Church once said, "I've never met a gay boy raised in a conservative environment that wasn't at least a lil kinky" The funny thing was, there were five of us in the room, not a single one made any sort of objection. I pointed out and we all doubled over laughing.

And this relates to the thread... how exactly?

I know a number of guys (and girls, not from personal experience) who are quiet in bed. We know sex feels good (or at least it should - some don't like it that way). Is there a reason why they don't vocalize it? Is it cause they generally don't vocalize physical pleasure or pain? Is it cause they're not comfortable with their own voice/sound? What do you think?

For me, it just feels very odd. The vocalising part, that is. It doesn’t come naturally, so in order to vocalise, I have to do so consciously, which just makes it weird and strange.

Vocalising pain is different (to me, at least), since it’s either a way of vocalising shock (at sudden, piercing pain) or to draw away attention from the pain itself (not a very efficient one, but an instinctive one). Different people feel sexual pleasure at different levels, and for me at least, it’s not nearly intense enough to warrant such tactics.

(How much of this thread falls into the TMI category?)

[dcmacdaddy]

Originally Posted by Salty 

One of the guys at my Church once said, "I've never met a gay boy raised in a conservative environment that wasn't at least a lil kinky". The funny thing was, there were five of us in the room, not a single one made any sort of objection. I pointed out and we all doubled over laughing.

Originally Posted by Oisín 

And this relates to the thread... how exactly?

You've been here long enough to know that Salty will use any chance he gets to talk about sexuality, especially homosexuality and his new-found "appreciation" for homosexuality. Let's hope he gets over this navel-gazing phase within a couple years.

[RAILhead]

Originally Posted by Salty 

One of the guys at my Church once said, "I've never met a gay boy raised in a conservative environment that wasn't at least a lil kinky" The funny thing was, there were five of us in the room, not a single one made any sort of objection. I pointed out and we all doubled over laughing.

That ith thooooo ghey.

[KeriVit]

Originally Posted by torsoboy 

Except for cats. Man I hate hearing those things wailing at night. Though I heard once that it is painful to the female, so that might be what all the racket is about. Anyway, I hate having cats that live close by.

My kitten is in heat right now- her first time.... awwww.... OK, she's getting fixed next week.

[Chuckit]

So me and a bunch of girls were talking at an atheist convention, right, and one of the girls says, "Wow, Chuck is really sexy and very much straight." And the funny thing is nobody else said anything to contradict it. I pointed that out and they all giggled and agreed that I am sexy.

am i doin it rite?

[Kevin]

Originally Posted by Salty 

One of the guys at my Church once said, "I've never met a gay boy raised in a conservative environment that wasn't at least a lil kinky" The funny thing was, there were five of us in the room, not a single one made any sort of objection. I pointed out and we all doubled over laughing.

That's some church you go to.

Originally Posted by Chuckit 

So me and a bunch of girls were talking at an atheist convention, right, and one of the girls says, "Wow, Chuck is really sexy and very much straight." And the funny thing is nobody else said anything to contradict it. I pointed that out and they all giggled and agreed that I am sexy.

am i doin it rite?

[Oisín]

That's some church you go to.

Indeed.

You've been here long enough to know that Salty will use any chance he gets to talk about sexuality, especially homosexuality and his new-found "appreciation" for homosexuality. Let's hope he gets over this navel-gazing phase within a couple years.

I thought it had been a couple of years already... I guess my inner calendar’s slow.

Besides, he usually at least starts with something that’s somehow slightly related to the topic at hand—this one was just out of kilter altogether!

[Oisín]

Originally Posted by Chuckit 

So me and a bunch of girls were talking at an atheist convention, right, and one of the girls says, "Wow, Chuck is really sexy and very much straight." And the funny thing is nobody else said anything to contradict it. I pointed that out and they all giggled and agreed that I am sexy.

am i doin it rite?

Well, you’re obviously doing something right, it would seem

[Salty]

OK the post is kinda about sex isn't it? So why is it that I'm getting criticized for mentioning something about sex?

By the way, yesterday the same guy mentioned how he's noticed that the most out going person in a couple is most always "the bottom" it was awkward since he was kinda staring at the most out going person in the room as he said it.

[Kevin]

Originally Posted by Salty 

By the way, yesterday the same guy mentioned how he's noticed that the most out going person in a couple is most always "the bottom" it was awkward since he was kinda staring at the most out going person in the room as he said it.

Which was you.

Don't slobber on the pillow. It's not sexy.

[Dakarʒ]

Oh hell, I've been sitting on this image for months, might as well use it.

[Kevin]